I typed the title above as the status of my facebook profile, out out of the blue, while waiting for my next class because honestly I'm feeling kinda off this week (whatever off supposed to mean :-p). I am so used to seeing my husband on every weekend since we got married so having not to for the first time is a really trying time. Didn't expect that post to get many likes and comments. So random. Hee hee.
But what really got me beaming from ear to ear was a poem created by Eesha. My former dorm mate who could always get people laughing till they are out of breath. She's witty like that, aside from being gorgeous and sexeh :-p
She wrote this:
Diyana Didi Zulkifli- this one is for you (suggestion je,don't kill me please)
merenung bulan merindui hubbeh,
jantungku berombak menantikan hubbeh
kerana daku amatlah hungreh
untuk bersama-sama makan honeh (*honey)
kerana tanpamu hidupku amatlah tak sunneh (*sunny)
oh sayang,kaulah bunneh (*bunny)
eh tapi bukan yang playboy bunneh
hahahaha :-D now this would make a really good song to entice someone to bed. eh terlucah pulak saya haha. I rarely say this but weekend please end quick I wanna get next week done and over with!
Thursday, February 24, 2011
Monday, February 21, 2011
Latest condition
My husband has to go through medical check up every few months so here's the latest news about his health condition. I've made an entry before about his deteriorating health condition. After years of being diagnosed with diabetes (15 years to be exact), it has been foreseen that all these would occur. It's just a matter of time and how bad.
He would meet the doctors next week after they analyzed his urine and blood but he already got his urine analysis. I have yet to see it but he told me that the uric acid and urea in his urine is now higher than before. Too much uric acid and urea could lead to many problems and you could search the net if you are curious about them. His kidney is now affected due to diabetes and therefore unlike the rest of us who have normal functioning pair of kidneys, his can't filter as well as ours. In order to curb this problem or at least to stop making them worse, he would have to watch what he eats. For an example, he can't take too much milk because although it is good, it could lead to phosphorus in his urine to be high. He should also lay off meat too as it is high in protein and too much of it could strain his kidney. But he is finding it to be difficult to manage his own diet as he is away from me and he usually goes home late so preparing his own meals is almost next to impossible.
We are now hoping not to make his health condition worse and although it could get frustrating at times, we are trying to maintain our composure and be positive. Our chances of having our own kids are quite slim but we are trying not to think too much about it. We leave it in God's hands and we try not to think of the what ifs because it could lead to devastation and could certainly shake our beliefs.
I can't believe that I'm typing this very matter-of-fact-ly and I believe I have gotten a lot stronger than before. Age probably has got to do with this :-) So that's all about my husband's latest condition. I am not good with words and often finding it difficult to explain things that are happening in our lives so hopefully typing about what is up could somehow let you keep track of our lives. I know some close friends are reading this so yes, this entry is done for you :-)
Have a good week, guys.
He would meet the doctors next week after they analyzed his urine and blood but he already got his urine analysis. I have yet to see it but he told me that the uric acid and urea in his urine is now higher than before. Too much uric acid and urea could lead to many problems and you could search the net if you are curious about them. His kidney is now affected due to diabetes and therefore unlike the rest of us who have normal functioning pair of kidneys, his can't filter as well as ours. In order to curb this problem or at least to stop making them worse, he would have to watch what he eats. For an example, he can't take too much milk because although it is good, it could lead to phosphorus in his urine to be high. He should also lay off meat too as it is high in protein and too much of it could strain his kidney. But he is finding it to be difficult to manage his own diet as he is away from me and he usually goes home late so preparing his own meals is almost next to impossible.
We are now hoping not to make his health condition worse and although it could get frustrating at times, we are trying to maintain our composure and be positive. Our chances of having our own kids are quite slim but we are trying not to think too much about it. We leave it in God's hands and we try not to think of the what ifs because it could lead to devastation and could certainly shake our beliefs.
I can't believe that I'm typing this very matter-of-fact-ly and I believe I have gotten a lot stronger than before. Age probably has got to do with this :-) So that's all about my husband's latest condition. I am not good with words and often finding it difficult to explain things that are happening in our lives so hopefully typing about what is up could somehow let you keep track of our lives. I know some close friends are reading this so yes, this entry is done for you :-)
Have a good week, guys.
Wednesday, February 16, 2011
extra miles
My husband is right now on a plane, off to Bangkok for work. Loneliness suddenly enveloped me and I was not sure why. When I gave myself a minute to think, I realised that it's because this means that he would be milesss away from me. Further than we usually are. He will be back this Friday and I would get to meet him inshaAllah on Saturday, right after school ends (to replace the Tuesday we had off during Chinese New Year) but still, I can't shake off this sudden longing of having him near me (Batu Pahat and KL is just three hours away, not that bad, really), preferably beside me. And I wonder how do people deal with long distance marriage, I mean reallllllly long distance marriage like Hani, a friend of mine whose husband is residing in the States whilst she is currently teaching in Johor. It takes great courage, tenacity and hard work. Hats off to them for staying strong and I foresee a bright future for them and their marriage.
I pray that my husband would have a safe journey and for the meeting to be smooth as planned. I pray that he would not have a tough time there and could take a great care of himself. I hope he would remember to watch what he consumes as he is diabetic with some complications to boot. Gosh I wish I could be his personal assistant who is with him 24/7 but wait, I am his wife cum personal assistant but without a pay of course because I'm doing all that I have to do out of love. Hehe.
A month from now, if God wills everything to be going as planned, we would be on our honeymoon and I can't wait for it :-) It is kinda late, almost 6 months after our do but I'm not complaining. We had to make do with what we had (honeymooning during December last year was impossible due to his work load and lack of holidays - he took too many for raya + our wedding :-p and the budget was really tight towards the end of last year too). So, Alhamdulillah that we managed to squeeze this in ^_^
I forgot to ask him how long would his flight be but I'm guessing it would take between 1-2 hrs. Be good fluffy hubby (fluffeh - referring to the minions in despicable me :-p), I'll see you soonish and though it would be nice to see you all smiley and handsome this Saturday, it would be extra nicer to see you have some souvenirs for me too. Thai silk, perhaps? :-p
and tomorrow marks the fifth month of our marriage! :-)
I pray that my husband would have a safe journey and for the meeting to be smooth as planned. I pray that he would not have a tough time there and could take a great care of himself. I hope he would remember to watch what he consumes as he is diabetic with some complications to boot. Gosh I wish I could be his personal assistant who is with him 24/7 but wait, I am his wife cum personal assistant but without a pay of course because I'm doing all that I have to do out of love. Hehe.
A month from now, if God wills everything to be going as planned, we would be on our honeymoon and I can't wait for it :-) It is kinda late, almost 6 months after our do but I'm not complaining. We had to make do with what we had (honeymooning during December last year was impossible due to his work load and lack of holidays - he took too many for raya + our wedding :-p and the budget was really tight towards the end of last year too). So, Alhamdulillah that we managed to squeeze this in ^_^
I forgot to ask him how long would his flight be but I'm guessing it would take between 1-2 hrs. Be good fluffy hubby (fluffeh - referring to the minions in despicable me :-p), I'll see you soonish and though it would be nice to see you all smiley and handsome this Saturday, it would be extra nicer to see you have some souvenirs for me too. Thai silk, perhaps? :-p
and tomorrow marks the fifth month of our marriage! :-)
Sunday, February 6, 2011
O.A.G
Post ini tiada kene mengena dengan kumpulan OAG if that is what you after. OAG here telah difemeskan oleh bebudak zaman aku skola menengah yang bermaksud Orang Alor Gajah. I am an Alor Gajahan, through and through and the same goes to my husband. Bukanlah semangat kedaerah-an kami kental tapi itu lah yang kite kate jodoh ye tuan tuan dan puan puan.
Kalo tanye orang yang bukan asal dari melaka, they would say that ooooo orang melake ye ulau melingkau atas pagau. Setiap kali dengar orang cakap cemtuh aku memang rase nak buat muke annoyed (ala muke yang mate pandang kat atas tuh dengan care yang keji sambil melempiaskan nafas yang orang puteh panggil sighing tuh.), sebabnye, ituh adelah sweeping statement yang takde kene mengena dengan orang alor gajah. Kami guna loghat negeri sembilan tapi tak lah serupa sebijik sebijan macam orang negeri sembilan.
Oleh sebab besok start keje lepas cuti seminggu dan sekarang nih dah kembali jauh dari laki, meh sini aku perkenalkan gaye percakapan orang alor gajah mane lah tau it would come in handy. You never know.
OAG suka replace huruf vokal dalam perkataan dengan huruf O.
eg :
benda = bondo.
suka = suko.
pelik = polik.
tapi bukanlah semua. janganlah cakap,
risau = riso.
kengkadang OAG tak sebut huruf konsonan dekat hujung ayat tuh,
eg:
benar = bona
mahal = maha
ade jugak perkataan perkataan yang tersendiri yang mungkin orang luar dari alor gajah tak paham.
eg:
tido = membuto.
makan = melantak.
cepat = dogheh.
dan tak lengkaplah belajar sesuatu bahasa tuh kalo tak belajar perkataan mencarut. Maka di sini aku nak bitau, ade satu perkataan menyumpah yang best yang digunakan secara meluas oleh OAG iaitu; BANDANG. Aku tak tau makna dia exactly apa, tanya orang lain pun derang taktau tapi yang aku tau, perkataan bandang nih sama taraf la menyumpah macam ko sebut cilake (cilako), sial (siya). Kita boleh dengar perkataan carutan bandang nih terutamanya bila di jalan raya.
contoh :
Apo bandang bona keto dopan nih kojap lane kanan kojap lane kiri.
(ape la cilake sangat kete depan nih kejap lane kanan kejap lane kiri).
Okeh skarang nih survival kit ko untuk cakap macam orang Alor Gajah rase dah OK dah. Basic tuh da ade dah la kirenye. Ape kate kite tengok application nye pule yeh. Rujuk dialog di bawah.
(Conversation ini berlaku apabila seorang makcik menelepon kawannya tapi kawan dia pulak tak angkat.)
makcik A : helo, si Ana ado?
budak : helo, omak takdo.
makcik A : eh mano poie omak kau?
budak : ontah. Tadi dio membuto dopan tibi lopeh melantak. Skang nih mano poie eh tak tau la.
makcik A : eh macam biskut pulak omak kau. Kojap ado, kojap takdo.
budak : ontahla makcik. Ado papo posanan ko, nak poie main lelayang kek lua nih ha.
makcik A : ko bitau omak kau, nanti suh tepon makcik balik dogheh.
budak : aaa yo lah *dalam hati : bandang boto la, aku nak main layang layang pun potong stim*
With the above survival kit to speaking like an Alor Gajahan, I think you would have a little or probably no difficulty in comprehending the above dialogue.
Meh la datang Alor Gajah. Kito leh makan kueh udang yang sodap tuh lopeh tuh buleh blaja cagho intonasi yang boto siap dongan eksperesi muko yang topek.
Kalo tanye orang yang bukan asal dari melaka, they would say that ooooo orang melake ye ulau melingkau atas pagau. Setiap kali dengar orang cakap cemtuh aku memang rase nak buat muke annoyed (ala muke yang mate pandang kat atas tuh dengan care yang keji sambil melempiaskan nafas yang orang puteh panggil sighing tuh.), sebabnye, ituh adelah sweeping statement yang takde kene mengena dengan orang alor gajah. Kami guna loghat negeri sembilan tapi tak lah serupa sebijik sebijan macam orang negeri sembilan.
Oleh sebab besok start keje lepas cuti seminggu dan sekarang nih dah kembali jauh dari laki, meh sini aku perkenalkan gaye percakapan orang alor gajah mane lah tau it would come in handy. You never know.
OAG suka replace huruf vokal dalam perkataan dengan huruf O.
eg :
benda = bondo.
suka = suko.
pelik = polik.
tapi bukanlah semua. janganlah cakap,
risau = riso.
kengkadang OAG tak sebut huruf konsonan dekat hujung ayat tuh,
eg:
benar = bona
mahal = maha
ade jugak perkataan perkataan yang tersendiri yang mungkin orang luar dari alor gajah tak paham.
eg:
tido = membuto.
makan = melantak.
cepat = dogheh.
dan tak lengkaplah belajar sesuatu bahasa tuh kalo tak belajar perkataan mencarut. Maka di sini aku nak bitau, ade satu perkataan menyumpah yang best yang digunakan secara meluas oleh OAG iaitu; BANDANG. Aku tak tau makna dia exactly apa, tanya orang lain pun derang taktau tapi yang aku tau, perkataan bandang nih sama taraf la menyumpah macam ko sebut cilake (cilako), sial (siya). Kita boleh dengar perkataan carutan bandang nih terutamanya bila di jalan raya.
contoh :
Apo bandang bona keto dopan nih kojap lane kanan kojap lane kiri.
(ape la cilake sangat kete depan nih kejap lane kanan kejap lane kiri).
Okeh skarang nih survival kit ko untuk cakap macam orang Alor Gajah rase dah OK dah. Basic tuh da ade dah la kirenye. Ape kate kite tengok application nye pule yeh. Rujuk dialog di bawah.
(Conversation ini berlaku apabila seorang makcik menelepon kawannya tapi kawan dia pulak tak angkat.)
makcik A : helo, si Ana ado?
budak : helo, omak takdo.
makcik A : eh mano poie omak kau?
budak : ontah. Tadi dio membuto dopan tibi lopeh melantak. Skang nih mano poie eh tak tau la.
makcik A : eh macam biskut pulak omak kau. Kojap ado, kojap takdo.
budak : ontahla makcik. Ado papo posanan ko, nak poie main lelayang kek lua nih ha.
makcik A : ko bitau omak kau, nanti suh tepon makcik balik dogheh.
budak : aaa yo lah *dalam hati : bandang boto la, aku nak main layang layang pun potong stim*
With the above survival kit to speaking like an Alor Gajahan, I think you would have a little or probably no difficulty in comprehending the above dialogue.
Meh la datang Alor Gajah. Kito leh makan kueh udang yang sodap tuh lopeh tuh buleh blaja cagho intonasi yang boto siap dongan eksperesi muko yang topek.
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