It's October :)
Not for long (I'm sure time will go by very quickly as there are heaps of work to be done before school ends) and my baby will be born :)
Ask me about the feeling of giving birth a few months back, I would've said I'm terrified beyond words.
Ask me now about it,
PASRAH.
Hehe.
No, seriously, I feel honoured. Honoured to be given the chance (inshaAllah) to bring a little caliph into this world. What matters to me now is that the baby will be delivered safely and he's healthy. I don't mind the pain, and truth be told, I'm fine with me dying during labour it that's what it takes. The most important thing to me now is the baby. He's my number one priority. My health, my comfort, my ease, my life, all of them fall into the very bottom of my priority list.
I know he would turn out to be an awesome guy regardless of me being with or without him :)
Lagipun kalau meninggal ketika labour, dikira syahid kan? Penghormatan yang betul-betul tinggi.
Tapi kena pastikan kerja semua settle dahulu kalau tak nanti orang sakit hati kalau meninggal menyusahkan orang lain :D
When will the time be, eh?
Early November?
Mid November?
End of November?
As long as the baby could be in my womb for at least 37 weeks, I'm fine with any time of the month.
I hope all will be well with you. And each day I pray that you would excel in your life, here and the hereafter. Be the awesome man that I've always envisioned you to be.
I love you my darling baby :) It's definitely okay for you to be kicking around when I'm trying to fall asleep. I don't mind. Awesome man kenalah rajin exercise, kan :D
Here's to us, to the next stage and to a great life that you will lead, hopefully, with me by your side too :)
Showing posts with label pregnancy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label pregnancy. Show all posts
Wednesday, October 3, 2012
Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Reminiscing the time when I found out I am expecting :)
Tadi time tunggu turn untuk check up, baca magazine Pa & Ma to kill the time. Selak punya selak, nampak satu page dari facebook yang Pa & Ma captured pasal cemana perasaan bila tau dah pregnant. Zuuuup. Terus teringat the day I found out I was pregnant.
The night before I found out I was pregnant, I drank a glass of Diet Dr Pepper (dia macam coke) dengan ais yang memang masyuk lah. Ooh sedapnya rasa. Nikmatnya. Tak terlintas pulak time tu kot tengah pregnant ke hape. My period isn't consistent. Kengkadang dia 28, 29, 30, 31. Averagenya dalam 30. Jadi bila dah lepas hari 28,29 tuh buat rilek saje lah. Sebab dah letih tetiap bulan macam nak saspen bila period lewat a few days. Heh.
Besoknye, hati dup dap dup dap. Memang gatal sungguh nak try Urine Pregnancy Test kit tuh yang memang dah ade stok kat umah. Tapi taknak try waktu husband ade kat rumah, nanti takut dia tengok, dia frust kalau negative. Jadi kalau buat sorang-sorang, negative pun, frust sorang-sorang aje. Or so I thought.
Maka lepas salam husband, dia pun gerak pegi keja. Lari masuk bilik nak try. Muehehehe. Ade nervous sket-sket. Tapi cuba saiko kan diri cakap,"alah nak try aje, kalau negative jangan sedih la, next time boleh try lagi". Tapi, waktu tuh, instinct memang cakap macam there's something. I must try. Tak boleh buat bodoh aje. Lagipun my birthday was approaching at that time. Wouldn't it be the most perfect gift ever, to find out you are expecting? :)
And so I did the test.
And left the strip unattended for a minute or two.
Bila masuk balik dalam toilet, my blood ran cold in my veins. Macam dia froze for a second gitu. My heart skipped a beat too. Could it be?
Ada dua line but the second one was a very faint one. But it was there.
Terus try buat the next strip. Kali nih different brand. Hehe.
Again, two lines! Rather faint. But being someone who was trying to conceive, you will read a lot about pregnancy stories on the internet and I knew a faint line is still considered as positive.
I wanted to cry sooooo bad.
Ye, bersyukur adalah description yang paling tepat pada waktu itu.
Wait, I think I cried bukan wanted to saja dah.
I txted my husband, knowing him, I knew the reply would've been on the dot especially when it comes to this kind of news. Tapi eh eh lambat pulak replynya. Bila call, tak dapat. Sah, line henponnya buat bengong lagi. Cis.
Called pulak opis line dia, dia takda, tapi sempatla sampaikan mesej supaya he would call me back. When he did, dia macam cemas. Takut ada benda buruk terjadi ke kan sebab macam emergency gitu siap suruh call back bagai. Tak pernah dibuek! But I merely told him, cube restart fon untuk baca my text.
Bila cakap cemtuh, dia dah dapat agak dah :)
Lepas tuh dia kol, sounded very very happy! Terus ajak nak pi jumpa doktor bila dia balik kerja nanti.
Malam tu, even though I was quite hesitant nak gi carik klinik yang masih bukak, tapi we managed to find one. Again, I did the UPT test and this time the line was not as faint as the ones I did in the morning. Doktor kata tahniah :) Dia bagi estimated due date based on my last menses.
Dalam kereta, suami cakap "Sekarang saya tau dah cemana rasa bila dapat tau isteri pregnant" sambil tersenyum kambing. He was very happy. We were both grateful for the opportunity to experience pregnancy. The next people I informed was my mom who was very happy too!! To date, memang nampak dia eksaited nak dapat cucu sulung. Baju pun siap dah belikan bagai. And then I texted my sis in law and my besties. Lepas tuh reached my closest friends via FB by PM-ing them. Of course, they too were over the moon :) It felt so good to know that people were happy for us.
From that day onwards, memang amek langkah berjaga-jaga. Jalan pun perlahan-lahan. Makan memang jaga habis lah. Allah dah bagi anugerah lepas lama menunggu, tak sanggup rasanya nak men belasah aje melasak dan makan pelbagai.
Sekarang, kejap aje rasa dah 7 months. Syukur sangat-sangat. Semoga Allah permudahkan urusan kami dan selamat lah kami menimang cahaya mata pertama nih. Tengah sabar menanti nak dukung dia for the very first time. In the meantime, semoga dia selamat membesar dengan sempurna dalam perut ibu dia ni :) InshaAllah.
The night before I found out I was pregnant, I drank a glass of Diet Dr Pepper (dia macam coke) dengan ais yang memang masyuk lah. Ooh sedapnya rasa. Nikmatnya. Tak terlintas pulak time tu kot tengah pregnant ke hape. My period isn't consistent. Kengkadang dia 28, 29, 30, 31. Averagenya dalam 30. Jadi bila dah lepas hari 28,29 tuh buat rilek saje lah. Sebab dah letih tetiap bulan macam nak saspen bila period lewat a few days. Heh.
Besoknye, hati dup dap dup dap. Memang gatal sungguh nak try Urine Pregnancy Test kit tuh yang memang dah ade stok kat umah. Tapi taknak try waktu husband ade kat rumah, nanti takut dia tengok, dia frust kalau negative. Jadi kalau buat sorang-sorang, negative pun, frust sorang-sorang aje. Or so I thought.
Maka lepas salam husband, dia pun gerak pegi keja. Lari masuk bilik nak try. Muehehehe. Ade nervous sket-sket. Tapi cuba saiko kan diri cakap,"alah nak try aje, kalau negative jangan sedih la, next time boleh try lagi". Tapi, waktu tuh, instinct memang cakap macam there's something. I must try. Tak boleh buat bodoh aje. Lagipun my birthday was approaching at that time. Wouldn't it be the most perfect gift ever, to find out you are expecting? :)
And so I did the test.
And left the strip unattended for a minute or two.
Bila masuk balik dalam toilet, my blood ran cold in my veins. Macam dia froze for a second gitu. My heart skipped a beat too. Could it be?
Ada dua line but the second one was a very faint one. But it was there.
Terus try buat the next strip. Kali nih different brand. Hehe.
Again, two lines! Rather faint. But being someone who was trying to conceive, you will read a lot about pregnancy stories on the internet and I knew a faint line is still considered as positive.
I wanted to cry sooooo bad.
Ye, bersyukur adalah description yang paling tepat pada waktu itu.
Wait, I think I cried bukan wanted to saja dah.
I txted my husband, knowing him, I knew the reply would've been on the dot especially when it comes to this kind of news. Tapi eh eh lambat pulak replynya. Bila call, tak dapat. Sah, line henponnya buat bengong lagi. Cis.
Called pulak opis line dia, dia takda, tapi sempatla sampaikan mesej supaya he would call me back. When he did, dia macam cemas. Takut ada benda buruk terjadi ke kan sebab macam emergency gitu siap suruh call back bagai. Tak pernah dibuek! But I merely told him, cube restart fon untuk baca my text.
Bila cakap cemtuh, dia dah dapat agak dah :)
Lepas tuh dia kol, sounded very very happy! Terus ajak nak pi jumpa doktor bila dia balik kerja nanti.
Malam tu, even though I was quite hesitant nak gi carik klinik yang masih bukak, tapi we managed to find one. Again, I did the UPT test and this time the line was not as faint as the ones I did in the morning. Doktor kata tahniah :) Dia bagi estimated due date based on my last menses.
Dalam kereta, suami cakap "Sekarang saya tau dah cemana rasa bila dapat tau isteri pregnant" sambil tersenyum kambing. He was very happy. We were both grateful for the opportunity to experience pregnancy. The next people I informed was my mom who was very happy too!! To date, memang nampak dia eksaited nak dapat cucu sulung. Baju pun siap dah belikan bagai. And then I texted my sis in law and my besties. Lepas tuh reached my closest friends via FB by PM-ing them. Of course, they too were over the moon :) It felt so good to know that people were happy for us.
From that day onwards, memang amek langkah berjaga-jaga. Jalan pun perlahan-lahan. Makan memang jaga habis lah. Allah dah bagi anugerah lepas lama menunggu, tak sanggup rasanya nak men belasah aje melasak dan makan pelbagai.
Sekarang, kejap aje rasa dah 7 months. Syukur sangat-sangat. Semoga Allah permudahkan urusan kami dan selamat lah kami menimang cahaya mata pertama nih. Tengah sabar menanti nak dukung dia for the very first time. In the meantime, semoga dia selamat membesar dengan sempurna dalam perut ibu dia ni :) InshaAllah.
Sunday, August 12, 2012
Diari Ramadhan Mak Yung
-- Tajuk nak bajet, kan. Haha. Teringat cerita Diari Ramadhan Rafique.--
Alhamdulillah, Allah bagi kesempatan untuk rasa berpuasa ketika hamil 5/6 bulan. Sekejap aje rasa. Dah nak raya dah. Kalau suruh evaluate puasa sendiri bagi tahun nih, oh, tak banyak bintang boleh saya bagi untuk diri saya. Masih baaaaannyak lagik perlukan improvement. InshaAllah kalau ada rezeki untuk jumpa lagi dengan Ramadhan tahun depan, harap adalah improvement.
Dan bulan ni juga saya tak dapat berpuasa penuh kerana ada kekangan tertentu walaupun pada awal Ramadhan kemain suka sebab ingatkan puasa tahun ni dapat puasa penuh. +__+ Mencabar rupanya berpuasa time pregnant. Siapa yang dapat berpuasa penuh tuh, untung sangat-sangat..
Tahun ni persiapan raya hampir kepada zero. Hampir saja ya sebab semalam berjaya beli jubah as baju raya merangkap baju untuk dipakai ketika semakin memboyot :D Untuk suami masih lagi zero. Nampak gaya tahun ni lebih kepada persiapan baby ;) Asal masuk aje kedai baju baby, mesti awwwwww comelnya baju yang itu! =D
Dalam bulan Ramadhan ni kebetulan ada dua baby expo, satu kat Mid valley dan satu kat KL convention Centre. We went to both walaupun time bulan berpuasa. Dapatla merembat pelbagai barangan yang berbaloi-baloi. Dapatlah banyak free gifts (I like this part- ngeheheh). Masih ada lagi barangan yang belum lengkap, slow-slow kayuh orang kata. Nak beli last minute semuanya sekaligus memang bisa meruntun jiwa nanti. Haha. Sebab tu kami start dari bulan ke 5 of pregnancy.
Tahun nih tak buat kuih raya unlike tahun lepas. Balik sekolah, sampai rumah dah nak pukul 6, kalau sibuk nak pulun buat kuih raya waktu malam nanti alamatnye ade oven yang kene buang dalam tong sampah. Hehe.
Pembesaran perut dah makin ketara, jalan pun dah semakin menyiput. Honestly, bila naik tangga tingkat tiga untuk pergi ke kelas tu memang kadang-kadang rasa nak pakai knee guard aje. Dan juga semakin out of breath kalau melasak sangat. Kadang-kadang tu stop sekejap kat pertengahan perjalanan naik tangga tu bagi amik nafas sket. Paling sweet kalau ada budak-budak yang concern tegur, teacher, be careful ya.. Adalah dalam dua-tiga kerat budak yang cemtu.
Masalah yang paling utama (for me,anyway) untuk berpuasa time pregnant cemni adalah dehydration. Haus sangat sampai kadang-kadang cakap pun merapu aje dalam kelas. Siap peluh-peluh sejuk lagi tu keluar. Balik bilik guru memang melepek lah, sambil jeling-jeling jam counting the hours to get back home =D Bila time sahur/buka tuh memang target minum air banyak-banyak sebab dehydration during pregnancy adalah tidak elok.Tapi semua nih pengalaman. Bolehla nanti cerita kat anak, bila dia dah faham, cemana ibu puasa waktu dia dalam perut. Hehe. Oh ye, paling suka sekarang nih kalau buka puasa adalah dengan air Ribena.
Sebelum Ramadhan, pernah bertekad tamau lagi pergi buffet Ramadhan untuk bulan puasa kali nih. Tapi, akhirnya, tewas. Haha. Nafsu nak makan benda manis-manis memang terlalu meluap. Dessert macam menari-nari depan mata. Akhirnya last week ajak husband pegi jugak buffet Ramadhan. Sampai aja terus attack meja dessert, bawak ke meja. Masuk aje waktu berbuka puasa, oh, seronoknya dapat makan dessert...rasa macam nak nanges. Bende lain tak makan sangat pun time tuh, tapi layan dessert aje sampaila kenyang. Membazir sangat sebenarnya pergi buffet Ramadhan, dah lah skarang nih bukannye boleh makan banyak pun..tapi tuhla, nafsu kan. So this is one of the reasons why I mentioned earlier in this post how my performance during Ramadhan this year tidak lah boleh dibanggakan.
Minggu depan dah raya.. ada lagi beberapa hari tinggal dalam bulan Ramadhan ni. Selamat berpuasa dan menjalani ibadah di penghujung Ramadhan! Dan selamat hari raya aidilfitri, maaf zahir batin :)
Alhamdulillah, Allah bagi kesempatan untuk rasa berpuasa ketika hamil 5/6 bulan. Sekejap aje rasa. Dah nak raya dah. Kalau suruh evaluate puasa sendiri bagi tahun nih, oh, tak banyak bintang boleh saya bagi untuk diri saya. Masih baaaaannyak lagik perlukan improvement. InshaAllah kalau ada rezeki untuk jumpa lagi dengan Ramadhan tahun depan, harap adalah improvement.
Dan bulan ni juga saya tak dapat berpuasa penuh kerana ada kekangan tertentu walaupun pada awal Ramadhan kemain suka sebab ingatkan puasa tahun ni dapat puasa penuh. +__+ Mencabar rupanya berpuasa time pregnant. Siapa yang dapat berpuasa penuh tuh, untung sangat-sangat..
Tahun ni persiapan raya hampir kepada zero. Hampir saja ya sebab semalam berjaya beli jubah as baju raya merangkap baju untuk dipakai ketika semakin memboyot :D Untuk suami masih lagi zero. Nampak gaya tahun ni lebih kepada persiapan baby ;) Asal masuk aje kedai baju baby, mesti awwwwww comelnya baju yang itu! =D
Dalam bulan Ramadhan ni kebetulan ada dua baby expo, satu kat Mid valley dan satu kat KL convention Centre. We went to both walaupun time bulan berpuasa. Dapatla merembat pelbagai barangan yang berbaloi-baloi. Dapatlah banyak free gifts (I like this part- ngeheheh). Masih ada lagi barangan yang belum lengkap, slow-slow kayuh orang kata. Nak beli last minute semuanya sekaligus memang bisa meruntun jiwa nanti. Haha. Sebab tu kami start dari bulan ke 5 of pregnancy.
Tahun nih tak buat kuih raya unlike tahun lepas. Balik sekolah, sampai rumah dah nak pukul 6, kalau sibuk nak pulun buat kuih raya waktu malam nanti alamatnye ade oven yang kene buang dalam tong sampah. Hehe.
Pembesaran perut dah makin ketara, jalan pun dah semakin menyiput. Honestly, bila naik tangga tingkat tiga untuk pergi ke kelas tu memang kadang-kadang rasa nak pakai knee guard aje. Dan juga semakin out of breath kalau melasak sangat. Kadang-kadang tu stop sekejap kat pertengahan perjalanan naik tangga tu bagi amik nafas sket. Paling sweet kalau ada budak-budak yang concern tegur, teacher, be careful ya.. Adalah dalam dua-tiga kerat budak yang cemtu.
Masalah yang paling utama (for me,anyway) untuk berpuasa time pregnant cemni adalah dehydration. Haus sangat sampai kadang-kadang cakap pun merapu aje dalam kelas. Siap peluh-peluh sejuk lagi tu keluar. Balik bilik guru memang melepek lah, sambil jeling-jeling jam counting the hours to get back home =D Bila time sahur/buka tuh memang target minum air banyak-banyak sebab dehydration during pregnancy adalah tidak elok.Tapi semua nih pengalaman. Bolehla nanti cerita kat anak, bila dia dah faham, cemana ibu puasa waktu dia dalam perut. Hehe. Oh ye, paling suka sekarang nih kalau buka puasa adalah dengan air Ribena.
Sebelum Ramadhan, pernah bertekad tamau lagi pergi buffet Ramadhan untuk bulan puasa kali nih. Tapi, akhirnya, tewas. Haha. Nafsu nak makan benda manis-manis memang terlalu meluap. Dessert macam menari-nari depan mata. Akhirnya last week ajak husband pegi jugak buffet Ramadhan. Sampai aja terus attack meja dessert, bawak ke meja. Masuk aje waktu berbuka puasa, oh, seronoknya dapat makan dessert...rasa macam nak nanges. Bende lain tak makan sangat pun time tuh, tapi layan dessert aje sampaila kenyang. Membazir sangat sebenarnya pergi buffet Ramadhan, dah lah skarang nih bukannye boleh makan banyak pun..tapi tuhla, nafsu kan. So this is one of the reasons why I mentioned earlier in this post how my performance during Ramadhan this year tidak lah boleh dibanggakan.
Minggu depan dah raya.. ada lagi beberapa hari tinggal dalam bulan Ramadhan ni. Selamat berpuasa dan menjalani ibadah di penghujung Ramadhan! Dan selamat hari raya aidilfitri, maaf zahir batin :)
Wednesday, July 18, 2012
baby's movement
I've been feeling my baby's movement for a few weeks now. It was subtle in the beginning and I used to not be able to tell it apart from gas. But now, it's obvious. It's the best sensation. It tells me that my baby is there. It never fails to make me feels grateful to Allah.
But yesterday my baby didn't move as much as before. Although I read on the internet at my time of pregnancy, it is pretty normal but surely, the worry was there.
This morning, I talked to my baby.
"Geraklah baby, ibu rindu awak.., ibu risaulah. Ibu sayang awak"
And right after that, the baby moved!
Sampai sekarang masih terasa dia gerak-gerak.
And my tears just keep on rolling.
Alhamdulillah.
Risau, memang risau walaupun tak ada apa yang patut dirisaukan InshaAllah. Tapi, the baby comes first. I don't mind not feeling well. I don't mind the pain. I'm okay with the discomfort I'm feeling. As long as the baby is fine.
Sorry baby, ibu nangis. Sebak sangat rasenye tadi. I love you so much even though I haven't met you yet. Terima kasih sebab bagi respond tadi =)
But yesterday my baby didn't move as much as before. Although I read on the internet at my time of pregnancy, it is pretty normal but surely, the worry was there.
This morning, I talked to my baby.
"Geraklah baby, ibu rindu awak.., ibu risaulah. Ibu sayang awak"
And right after that, the baby moved!
Sampai sekarang masih terasa dia gerak-gerak.
And my tears just keep on rolling.
Alhamdulillah.
Risau, memang risau walaupun tak ada apa yang patut dirisaukan InshaAllah. Tapi, the baby comes first. I don't mind not feeling well. I don't mind the pain. I'm okay with the discomfort I'm feeling. As long as the baby is fine.
Sorry baby, ibu nangis. Sebak sangat rasenye tadi. I love you so much even though I haven't met you yet. Terima kasih sebab bagi respond tadi =)
Wednesday, July 11, 2012
Tips untuk pregnant
Ehm, rasanya post nih kene ada rating. 18 years and above only. Kalau bawah umur nanti kang baca pening pulak kepala.
Kami kawen dah setaun setengah baru ditakdirkan Allah untuk saya pregnant. Jadi sempatlah merasa dapat macam-macam tips untuk pastikan usaha berhasil. *cough*
Untuk 8 bulan pertama kahwin, kami duduk asing asing. Husband kat KL, I was in Johor. Mintak pindah tak dapat, maka selama 8 bulan tuh selalulah jadik musafir. Meeting point kat Melaka (kampung kami). Pagi-pagi senin akan gerak ke tempat kerja masing-masing.
Lepas dapat duduk sama, memang ramai yang ingatkan "wah lepas nih teruslah lekat!" Saya senyum aje. Hehe. Sebab tau kami nih tak macam orang lain, it is a very private matter tapi Alhamdulillah lepas tuh Allah makbulkan doa kami jugak =) Thank you Allah. It brings tears to my eyes each time I think about how it feels like a dream that came true. And because of that, I try to avoid from complaining. Bila dah dapat apa yang memang kita betul-betul hendak, rasa malu dan segan sangat nak komplen tentang sakit pening bagai. Kalau ngadu kat suami sebab nak manja tuh adelah hehe =P
Bila baca kat internet (blog, forum, etc) rasa hati ni sangat tersentuh bila baca tentang orang yang tunggu sangat lama untuk dapatkan zuriat. Bayangkan, tunggu sampai 4,5 tahun tapi masih belum ada rezeki untuk dapat baby sendiri... Rata-rata orang yang da kahwin memang nak kan zuriat sendiri. In fact, kalau boleh tu, lepas kawin aje nak terus positif bila check UPT. Tak gitu?
Tapi rezeki masing-masing Allah dah tetapkan. Yang perlu kita buat adalah berusaha dan berdoa =) Oh ye, dan jangan stress.
Assuming that you and your partner have zero health issue, cubalah amalkan petua-petua kat bawah ni manalah tau berkesan.
Kepada yang dah berkahwin dan hamil/dah ada zuriat, jangan lupa ucapkan syukur kepada Allah SWT. Ini adalah rezeki yang tidak ada nilainya. Dan juga satu amanah yang sangat besar. Mudah-mudahan kita dapat didik anak/bakal anak untuk menjadi muslim yang berkualiti. Sekarang nih dah ramai sangat remaja yang dah jauh tersasar dari mengamalkan ajaran Islam yang sebenar. Jadi kalau boleh, ramaikanlah golongan orang muda yang soleh/solehah, berjaya dunia dan akhirat. Semoga dipermudahkanNya untuk kita bimbing anak-anak kita. Amin.
Kami kawen dah setaun setengah baru ditakdirkan Allah untuk saya pregnant. Jadi sempatlah merasa dapat macam-macam tips untuk pastikan usaha berhasil. *cough*
Untuk 8 bulan pertama kahwin, kami duduk asing asing. Husband kat KL, I was in Johor. Mintak pindah tak dapat, maka selama 8 bulan tuh selalulah jadik musafir. Meeting point kat Melaka (kampung kami). Pagi-pagi senin akan gerak ke tempat kerja masing-masing.
Lepas dapat duduk sama, memang ramai yang ingatkan "wah lepas nih teruslah lekat!" Saya senyum aje. Hehe. Sebab tau kami nih tak macam orang lain, it is a very private matter tapi Alhamdulillah lepas tuh Allah makbulkan doa kami jugak =) Thank you Allah. It brings tears to my eyes each time I think about how it feels like a dream that came true. And because of that, I try to avoid from complaining. Bila dah dapat apa yang memang kita betul-betul hendak, rasa malu dan segan sangat nak komplen tentang sakit pening bagai. Kalau ngadu kat suami sebab nak manja tuh adelah hehe =P
Bila baca kat internet (blog, forum, etc) rasa hati ni sangat tersentuh bila baca tentang orang yang tunggu sangat lama untuk dapatkan zuriat. Bayangkan, tunggu sampai 4,5 tahun tapi masih belum ada rezeki untuk dapat baby sendiri... Rata-rata orang yang da kahwin memang nak kan zuriat sendiri. In fact, kalau boleh tu, lepas kawin aje nak terus positif bila check UPT. Tak gitu?
Tapi rezeki masing-masing Allah dah tetapkan. Yang perlu kita buat adalah berusaha dan berdoa =) Oh ye, dan jangan stress.
Assuming that you and your partner have zero health issue, cubalah amalkan petua-petua kat bawah ni manalah tau berkesan.
- Spot the days when you are fertile. Orang perempuan bukanlah subur setiap hari dalam sebulan tuh. Usually, hari subur orang perempuan adalah dalam hari ke 12-18 selepas haid. Depends on people and it also changes from month to month. So to be on the safe side and to ensure that you 'do' it on the right time, 'do' it every two days. Contoh : hari ke 12,14,16,18. Sperm boleh bertahan untuk beberapa hari dalam uterus.
- There are two ways (that I could remember) on detecting your fertile days. First, is via taking body basal temperature (I could be wrong about the name). Ada thermometer khas yang boleh dibeli kat pharmacies. Kena amek suhu setiap hari pada masa yang sama dan buatkan graf. Nanti akan perasan yang ada hari-hari di mana suhu lebih tinggi dari biasa. Itu adalah hari subur. Secondly, kena alert dengan cairan yang keluar (keputihan). Pada hari subur, keputihan tu lebih jernih dan lebih banyak dari biasa.
- I still remember ada akak-akak kat sekolah lama yang sarankan jangan straightaway nak bangun lepas bersama. Baringlah dulu.
- Pernah dengar tak petua orang kata minum susu kambing kalau nak dapatkan zuriat? Ada yang menyatakan, kadang-kadang, dalam rahim kita ataupun dalam badan suami, ada jin yang menumpang. Itu boleh sebabkan kesukaran dapat zuriat. Kalau sentiasa minum susu kambing, ini boleh menyebabkan dia pergi dari badan kita. Lepas tu inshaAllah la ada peluang untuk dapatkan zuriat. I don't know how legit this is. Takut silap dengar. Tapi tak salah mencuba.
- Jangan lupa untuk berdoa. Search saja internet untuk dapatkan potongan ayat dari Al-Quran yang boleh diamalkan. Antara yang boleh diamalkan adalah "rabbi habli milladunka zurriyatan toyyibah innaka sami' uddua". Nih telah dirumikan, elok cari bukan rumi untuk baca mengikut tajwid yang betul.
- Banyakkan membuat amal jariah, bersedekah.
- Elakkan minum air kelapa, air bikarbonat, makan nenas dan papaya. Manalah tau kot-kot dah lekat tapi nanti gugur pulak awal-awal sebab badan tak tahan dengan makanan/minuman tu. Tapi saya dulu belasah aje makan dan minum sebelum tau pregnant. In fact, malam sebelum tau pregnant tu, dok minum segelas air bikarbonat dengan syoknya. Nasib baik lah takde pape -__-"
Kepada yang dah berkahwin dan hamil/dah ada zuriat, jangan lupa ucapkan syukur kepada Allah SWT. Ini adalah rezeki yang tidak ada nilainya. Dan juga satu amanah yang sangat besar. Mudah-mudahan kita dapat didik anak/bakal anak untuk menjadi muslim yang berkualiti. Sekarang nih dah ramai sangat remaja yang dah jauh tersasar dari mengamalkan ajaran Islam yang sebenar. Jadi kalau boleh, ramaikanlah golongan orang muda yang soleh/solehah, berjaya dunia dan akhirat. Semoga dipermudahkanNya untuk kita bimbing anak-anak kita. Amin.
Monday, July 9, 2012
Puasa ketika hamil
Bulan puasa tak lama lagi saje =) Seronok sangat sebab dapat chance untuk hadapi Ramadhan lagi, dapat try untuk membanyakkan pahala dan inshaAllah dapat didik baby dari dalam perut tentang ibadah puasa. Hee.
Tapi tak boleh nak tipu, tetap ada rasa nervous.
Haritu ada ganti puasa, boleh tahan lembiknya. Terpaksa tidur sebab rasa letih tahap gaban.
Jadi rasa nervous tu datang sebab risau, dapat ke tidak jalani ibadah puasa dengan baik kali ni. Kalau boleh, nak cube penuh berpuasa supaya lepas ni tak payah fikir nak ganti ganti lagi dah. Tapi itula, manusia mampu merancang saje. Wanita hamil boleh berbuka kalau risau akan keselamatan baby/diri sendiri time berpuasa.
Setakat nih a few tips yang dapat dari rakan rakan adalah:
Tapi tak boleh nak tipu, tetap ada rasa nervous.
Haritu ada ganti puasa, boleh tahan lembiknya. Terpaksa tidur sebab rasa letih tahap gaban.
Jadi rasa nervous tu datang sebab risau, dapat ke tidak jalani ibadah puasa dengan baik kali ni. Kalau boleh, nak cube penuh berpuasa supaya lepas ni tak payah fikir nak ganti ganti lagi dah. Tapi itula, manusia mampu merancang saje. Wanita hamil boleh berbuka kalau risau akan keselamatan baby/diri sendiri time berpuasa.
Setakat nih a few tips yang dapat dari rakan rakan adalah:
- Makan kurma waktu bersahur dan berbuka.
- Makan oat waktu bersahur.
- Minum air secukupnya dan susu ketika bersahur is not a bad idea too
- Untuk make sure dapat buat ketiga tiga di atas ni dengan baik, gamaknye kene bangun sahur awal betul lah ni kan kalau tak mau kembung perut dibuatnye :P
- Ada jugak yang rekemen amik jus tok guru. Nanti inshaAllah nak try, tapi kena tunggu balik Melaka sebab taktau nak cari mana kat KL nih =P
- Cakap cakap dengan baby agar bersabar. Ibu dia nak berpuasa. Nih lebih kepada psychology maybe.
Monday, June 18, 2012
Amalan ketika hamil
Okay, jadi, waktu preggie, elok:
- minum susu (malangnye skang ni boleh minum susu yang biase biase tuh aje. susu utk ibu mengandung tak berape nak lalu. substitute dgn makan vitamin yang doc bagi - neurogain, calcium & iberet folic).
- makan kurma & kismis
- minum air kelapa (hujung2 pregnancy. but a colleague of mine who got pregnant a month after me have started drinking it. baik utk kulit baby, nanti bersih gitu. okay. shall not risk it. will wait until I'm 7 months before I start attacking the kelapa like crazy)
- minum & sapu minyak kelapa dara. (heard tanamera's good. again, only until I'm 7 months preggie before I start consuming it. A lot of reviews said it helped them during delivery. TIADA KOYAKAN! - it instantly went to my MUST CONSUME list).
- makan fruits.
- well-cooked dishes. BYE SUSHI.
- baca al Quran especially surah - surah : surah yusof (supaya elok rupa paras), surah luqman (supaya anak mendengar kata & bijak) Surah Maryam (memudahkan bersalin) & surah Yaasin.
- jage perlakuan, tutur kata & adab. Bagus, bagus. Boleh didik diri jadik lebih baik. Harap-harap berterusan sampai lepas bersalin pun :)
Wednesday, June 6, 2012
graduated. off to the next stage.
internet's back on after about 3 weeks of deprivation. heheh.
The email from a baby-stuff website (excuse me, pregnancy brain, can't recall the exact name of the website) reminded me that last week I have graduated from the first trimester. huge relief!
People been saying that pregnancy experience differs from one person to another but so far, weirdly, mine is as exactly as described on the internet. But I suppose that's great because I know what's going on and why :)
Thank goodness, the second trimester has been really good to me.
I am not as exhausted as before. Previously, it's like my battery was flat. Most of the time. I'm lucky enough that I only need to go to work at about 1130ish AM everyday (I'm teaching the afternoon session kids) so I got to sleep and recharged my battery before I'm off to work. After a half day battle at school it's usually nap time by 1030 PM. I didn't even prepare the meals anymore. I couldn't stand the smell of just about everything. A very, very challenging phase. The exhaustion, I read somewhere, is caused by the body trying to build a new organ which is the placenta.
Now, I am happy to report that I am okay with cooking. The smell isn't so so bad anymore and the exhaustion is more tolerable. The pain in my well, lower part of the abdomen, has also subsided. (The pain is because the uterus is getting bigger). Oh but I am still on chicken-free diet. Although a few nights ago I had a very strange dream about ayam percik practically dancing in front of me. Huh.
The latest sonogram scan I did managed to put a very wide smile on my face. I could see the baby kicking and throwing punches. I haven't met this baby yet but every single day, I'm full of love for this tiny one :) Guess my maternal instinct is starting to kick in. Good :) But I can't deny that there are definitely days where I have doubts. Particularly on whether I would succeed in being the best mom for this baby. It's a huge responsibility that I pray everyday I would be ably to carry out.
There are also times where I've started to think about the day. You know, when I shall have to push him/her out of my urm down south part? Hopefully that will work out fine for the baby and I.
I still have many more months to read/do research about parenting, giving birth etc so I'm going to enjoy this ride as best as I could.
Alhamdulillah for this opportunity to be able to experience pregnancy. Thank you Allah.
The email from a baby-stuff website (excuse me, pregnancy brain, can't recall the exact name of the website) reminded me that last week I have graduated from the first trimester. huge relief!
People been saying that pregnancy experience differs from one person to another but so far, weirdly, mine is as exactly as described on the internet. But I suppose that's great because I know what's going on and why :)
Thank goodness, the second trimester has been really good to me.
I am not as exhausted as before. Previously, it's like my battery was flat. Most of the time. I'm lucky enough that I only need to go to work at about 1130ish AM everyday (I'm teaching the afternoon session kids) so I got to sleep and recharged my battery before I'm off to work. After a half day battle at school it's usually nap time by 1030 PM. I didn't even prepare the meals anymore. I couldn't stand the smell of just about everything. A very, very challenging phase. The exhaustion, I read somewhere, is caused by the body trying to build a new organ which is the placenta.
Now, I am happy to report that I am okay with cooking. The smell isn't so so bad anymore and the exhaustion is more tolerable. The pain in my well, lower part of the abdomen, has also subsided. (The pain is because the uterus is getting bigger). Oh but I am still on chicken-free diet. Although a few nights ago I had a very strange dream about ayam percik practically dancing in front of me. Huh.
The latest sonogram scan I did managed to put a very wide smile on my face. I could see the baby kicking and throwing punches. I haven't met this baby yet but every single day, I'm full of love for this tiny one :) Guess my maternal instinct is starting to kick in. Good :) But I can't deny that there are definitely days where I have doubts. Particularly on whether I would succeed in being the best mom for this baby. It's a huge responsibility that I pray everyday I would be ably to carry out.
There are also times where I've started to think about the day. You know, when I shall have to push him/her out of my urm down south part? Hopefully that will work out fine for the baby and I.
I still have many more months to read/do research about parenting, giving birth etc so I'm going to enjoy this ride as best as I could.
Alhamdulillah for this opportunity to be able to experience pregnancy. Thank you Allah.
Sunday, April 15, 2012
minggu 8
Alhamdulillah. Diam tak diam, dah nak 8 minggu inshaAllah. Setakat nih masih tak kuasa nak announce kat facebook kecuali bagi PM kat kawan kawan terdekat saje. Maybe bila perut dah memboyot (although sekarang pun sudah bonc tapi I blame it on the lemaks hehehehe bukan baby bump, ini lemak bump. naaaais) barulah upload gambar kat fesbuk, bagi memenuhi permintaan peminat (eh?).
memang sungguhlah everyday is a new day. Ayam, which used to be my favourite main dish is now no longer a favourite of mine. In fact, I can't even stand the sight of it. Let alone the smell. Ayam goreng is like my number one enemy. So far. And it's so weird to think of how I have no control over it. I honestly used to like ayam. And now, I'd rather eat nasik with only sayur should there be ayam.
My appetite has been quite poor lately and it has ahem helped me to reduce weight, actually. Wallaweyh~ But there's been no throwing up though except on several occasions previously that were triggered by 1) phlegm 2) brushing the teeth. I do, however, feel nauseous every now and then. And right now, as I'm typing this entry, my mind keeps on wandering off about ayam and it's making me feel... queasy. Haha. Kurang ajar sungguh ayam goreng itu.
I also get tired easily. Sometimes, words can't describe how tired I'm feeling especially right after going up and down the stairs and getting into a love-hate relationship with the kids. Heh.
And I loooove fruits these days! They taste so good. So refreshing.
I hope things will go smoothly for us. There are definitely times where I can't help but to be remembered of those sad stories that I read on the internet and freaked out. InshaAllah, inshaAllah things will be fine for us. Positivity all the way, babe!
And so far, I feel so thankful. Although my body is behaving all weird, I'm not complaining. It has always been a dream for us to have our very own 'mini me' and to complain about these little stuff would be so, so wrong.
Pray for us! :)
memang sungguhlah everyday is a new day. Ayam, which used to be my favourite main dish is now no longer a favourite of mine. In fact, I can't even stand the sight of it. Let alone the smell. Ayam goreng is like my number one enemy. So far. And it's so weird to think of how I have no control over it. I honestly used to like ayam. And now, I'd rather eat nasik with only sayur should there be ayam.
My appetite has been quite poor lately and it has ahem helped me to reduce weight, actually. Wallaweyh~ But there's been no throwing up though except on several occasions previously that were triggered by 1) phlegm 2) brushing the teeth. I do, however, feel nauseous every now and then. And right now, as I'm typing this entry, my mind keeps on wandering off about ayam and it's making me feel... queasy. Haha. Kurang ajar sungguh ayam goreng itu.
I also get tired easily. Sometimes, words can't describe how tired I'm feeling especially right after going up and down the stairs and getting into a love-hate relationship with the kids. Heh.
And I loooove fruits these days! They taste so good. So refreshing.
I hope things will go smoothly for us. There are definitely times where I can't help but to be remembered of those sad stories that I read on the internet and freaked out. InshaAllah, inshaAllah things will be fine for us. Positivity all the way, babe!
And so far, I feel so thankful. Although my body is behaving all weird, I'm not complaining. It has always been a dream for us to have our very own 'mini me' and to complain about these little stuff would be so, so wrong.
Pray for us! :)
Tuesday, March 27, 2012
Hello little bean :)
Everyday is a new day for me.
Contohnya, semalam badan macam banyak angin. Asyik nak buang angin aje. Kadang kadang dalam kelas pun terpaksa. Hehe. Tak buleh tahan!
Harini macam okay, tak ada angin sangat.
Mual mual belum lagi, cuma the husband aje so far yang mual mual hehe.
It might change in a couple of weeks though.
Takpe, saya redha! Janji the lil bean is growing healthily :) Biarlah nak alahan cemana sekali pun, inshaAllah I will go through it patiently sebab we have been so patient waiting for this to happen (a year and a half to be exact! )and it would be so, so wrong to complain bila ada kesukaran sedikit, kan.
Sekarang ni every time lepas prayer, doa yang paling 1st adalah for the lil bean. Agaknya lepas dah scan, dah dengar heartbeat, dah nampak dia gerak gerak and rasa the movement dalam perut, mesti laaaagi menebal rasa sayang tuh kan. Rindu pulak rasa kat my mom.
Kebetulan ahad lalu (25th march) was my birthday. Allah bagi hadiah birthday yang comel sekali, satu khabar berita yang mengujakan. Alhamdulillah.
InshaAllah semoga this 9 months ride will be a smooth one for us :)
Contohnya, semalam badan macam banyak angin. Asyik nak buang angin aje. Kadang kadang dalam kelas pun terpaksa. Hehe. Tak buleh tahan!
Harini macam okay, tak ada angin sangat.
Mual mual belum lagi, cuma the husband aje so far yang mual mual hehe.
It might change in a couple of weeks though.
Takpe, saya redha! Janji the lil bean is growing healthily :) Biarlah nak alahan cemana sekali pun, inshaAllah I will go through it patiently sebab we have been so patient waiting for this to happen (a year and a half to be exact! )and it would be so, so wrong to complain bila ada kesukaran sedikit, kan.
Sekarang ni every time lepas prayer, doa yang paling 1st adalah for the lil bean. Agaknya lepas dah scan, dah dengar heartbeat, dah nampak dia gerak gerak and rasa the movement dalam perut, mesti laaaagi menebal rasa sayang tuh kan. Rindu pulak rasa kat my mom.
Kebetulan ahad lalu (25th march) was my birthday. Allah bagi hadiah birthday yang comel sekali, satu khabar berita yang mengujakan. Alhamdulillah.
InshaAllah semoga this 9 months ride will be a smooth one for us :)
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