Cuti hujung tahun nih 1st time dapat rasa jadik surirumahtangga. Kemas kemas, masak masak, layan suami. Penat jugak kan rupenye jadik surirumahtangga. Jadik janganla pandang rendah kat mereka walaupun mereka tak bekerja dan duduk aje kat rumah. Mereka tuh sebenarnya pengurus. Pengurus dalam keluarga. Walaupun tak menyumbang dari segi material, mereka beri support yang umpph dari segi keperluan yang lain.
Aku selalu berangan, besh nye kalau dapat kerja dari rumah aje.
Bayangkan, jadik cikgu dalam virtual world. Bebudak semua bukak laptop/netbook/pc dan kami mula belajar. Pantau dari jauh. Jawab soalan budak thru chatting application. Semak kerja mereka lepas derang dah submit via email. Heaven!
Tak payah bazir duit untuk minyak dan jugak kurang la kerap nak kena servis kereta. Duit bulanan yang selalu bajet untuk minyak + servis dah buleh asingkan untuk insurans + road tax kereta. Jimat!
Maybe beberape kali dalam sebulan adelah jugak kene pergi sekolah untuk meeting etc. Tapi masih jimat, sebab bukan hari hari pun.
Hari hari dapat masak kat rumah untuk family. Suami pun mesti suka, dia memang tak elok makan kat luar sebab kami tak dapat pantau kandungan food tuh, bila saya dapat masak untuk dia hari hari mesti dia lagik sihat, kan. Happy!
Bila dah ada anak anak pun, tak ade masalah dah nak carik nanny atau pembantu rumah. Let mommy watch you kids and we can spend quality time together gether!
The most important thing is, there won't be much of an issue untuk pertukaran guru etc dan selesailah masalah saye dok jauh dengan suami.
Haih, syiok betul kalo nih jadik kenyataan. Kalau ada projek cubaan untuk bende alah nih, I'll be among the first to volunteer, sumpah tak tipu.
btw, ape relevannya tajuk entry nih? hehe tuhla menu untuk today. Saye masak biase biase aje, tapi penuh kasih sayang. Heheh. Suami, saye tunggu awak ni! :-)
Thursday, November 25, 2010
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
rayuan pertukaran
Since my transfer application was rejected, we both decided not to forfeit and keep on fighting. Cehwah macam dalam war pulak. Tapi ituhla, cube aje ape yang boleh, tak salah kan.
Maka cubaan kami itu adala...pergi ke Jabatan Pendidikan Johor and Kementerian Pelajaran (MOE) kat Putrajaya.
I initially wanted to just go to MOE but a teacher in my school suggested me to go to both JPNJ and MOE.
And so my husband took a day off yesterday (wednesday) in order to accompany me to go to these two places.
We started our journey to JPNJ early in the morning, after Subuh. Thanks to the GPS thingy, we managed to find that place. Kami tak reti sangat jalan kat JB. To those who are going to Jabatan Pelajaran for an appeal for transfer, you need to meet the pegawai for the bahagian sekolah menengah/rendah to hand him your letter. What you will need to give him are:- a letter of appeal, a copy of your transfer application, and copies of related documents (sijil nikah, surat sakit, etc). Dah jumpa and pot pet pot pet, you're done.
Next, we continued our journey to Putrajaya. Although we were rushing, we did stopped and had a rest at RnR Machap because we were both a bit tired from the journey. Suami saya pun dia tak buleh penat penat sangat sebab dia kan sakit.
After about half an hour, kami pun gerak semula ke Putrajaya, ikut cakap GPS lagik. Miss GPS bawak kami lalu route jalan belakang ke Putrajaya. Cayalah, miss GPS.
Bahagian sektor pengurusan sekolah menengah is at block E2, tingkat 4. Parking was a nightmare. It seemed so impossible to find one! Terpaksa kami park jauh jauh dan dalam panas panas tuh kami pun berjalan ke blok E2 tu. Kesian tengok suami peluh peluh pastuh muka dia dah nampak penat. Takut jugak kalau kaki dia bengkak, sebab dia kalo penat/stress kaki dia akan senang bengkak (water retention sebab kidney dia tu). Bila dah bengkak, memang dia akan rasa tak selesa.
Naik aje tingkat 4, oh ramai rupanya cikgus cikgis yang nak buat rayuan. They even have a form for you to fill in. Kurang skit dah rasa cuak knowing that I'm not alone in this thing. Penuh jugak ruang menunggu tuh sebab ada yang bawak baby, anak anak, mak bapak, etc. Orang yang dekat kaunter tuh layan kami dengan penuh sopan dan sabar. Thumbs up.
After waiting for an hour, sambil kejap kejap tanye suami, "awak OK tak?" all the teachers pun kene go in this one room yang mana dup dap dup dap jugakla hati nih time nak masuk tuh. Phew. Note that only the teachers are allowed to go in this room. Maka sape yang bawak anak anak/babies tuh akhirnye kene tinggalkan kat luar jugak so to those yang nak bawak anak anak kecil tuh I would recommend you not to sebab tak buleh bawak masuk jumpa pegawai pun..nanti kesian dia nangis kene tunggu mak dia lama lama..
Dah masuk dalam bilik tu, ada dua orang pegawai. The first one gave a briefing on how to fill in the form and the necessary documents needed. The second one gave a briefing on the states yang memang payah nak masuk cikgu cikgi baru...which are..Terengganu & Kelantan unless you are an English teacher sebab they are lacking of them.
Lepas dah briefing, kami pun serahkan borang kami.
In my case, cikgu BI as a whole in KL da penuh, walopun kat sekolah sekolah ada je yang kurang cikgu BI but I still submit my rayuan anyway. Tak rasa sedih sangat time tuh sebab the two officers were really nice and the way the behaved, they meant business. Takde nak cakap bende bende yang menyakitkan hati.
Pukul 5 lebih, we were done. Kesian jugak pekerja pekerja kat situ, mesti penat kene kerja lebih masa sket dari biasa and had to meet hundredssss of people with different stories and circumstances. Tak lama lagi mesti reach thousand something sebab semalam dapat borang dah number 900++.
We tried what we could. Mane tau kalau Allah izinkan, dapat la tukar dan duduk sekali dengan suami. Semalam sampai aje umah, memang masing masing terus pengsan atas katel. Dalam hati, kesian sangat kat suami. Mesti dia penat, dah la time kerja penat, time cuti pun penat gak. Sobs sobs. Hari nih nak masak nasik ayam yang super sedap penuh kasih sayang untuk dia. Hihi. Malam ni before tido nak urut kaki dia lama lama sket sebab semalam penat sangat, tak larat nak urut huhu.
InshaAllah kalau ada rezeki.
Kalau takde..takpe, kita tengok alternatif lain.
BTW, rayuan pertukaran nih sebenarnye takde pun dalam prosedur. Dia layan sebab ihsan saje dan dia gelar this procedure as "Rayuan Semakan Semula Penempatan".
Maka cubaan kami itu adala...pergi ke Jabatan Pendidikan Johor and Kementerian Pelajaran (MOE) kat Putrajaya.
I initially wanted to just go to MOE but a teacher in my school suggested me to go to both JPNJ and MOE.
And so my husband took a day off yesterday (wednesday) in order to accompany me to go to these two places.
We started our journey to JPNJ early in the morning, after Subuh. Thanks to the GPS thingy, we managed to find that place. Kami tak reti sangat jalan kat JB. To those who are going to Jabatan Pelajaran for an appeal for transfer, you need to meet the pegawai for the bahagian sekolah menengah/rendah to hand him your letter. What you will need to give him are:- a letter of appeal, a copy of your transfer application, and copies of related documents (sijil nikah, surat sakit, etc). Dah jumpa and pot pet pot pet, you're done.
Next, we continued our journey to Putrajaya. Although we were rushing, we did stopped and had a rest at RnR Machap because we were both a bit tired from the journey. Suami saya pun dia tak buleh penat penat sangat sebab dia kan sakit.
After about half an hour, kami pun gerak semula ke Putrajaya, ikut cakap GPS lagik. Miss GPS bawak kami lalu route jalan belakang ke Putrajaya. Cayalah, miss GPS.
Bahagian sektor pengurusan sekolah menengah is at block E2, tingkat 4. Parking was a nightmare. It seemed so impossible to find one! Terpaksa kami park jauh jauh dan dalam panas panas tuh kami pun berjalan ke blok E2 tu. Kesian tengok suami peluh peluh pastuh muka dia dah nampak penat. Takut jugak kalau kaki dia bengkak, sebab dia kalo penat/stress kaki dia akan senang bengkak (water retention sebab kidney dia tu). Bila dah bengkak, memang dia akan rasa tak selesa.
Naik aje tingkat 4, oh ramai rupanya cikgus cikgis yang nak buat rayuan. They even have a form for you to fill in. Kurang skit dah rasa cuak knowing that I'm not alone in this thing. Penuh jugak ruang menunggu tuh sebab ada yang bawak baby, anak anak, mak bapak, etc. Orang yang dekat kaunter tuh layan kami dengan penuh sopan dan sabar. Thumbs up.
After waiting for an hour, sambil kejap kejap tanye suami, "awak OK tak?" all the teachers pun kene go in this one room yang mana dup dap dup dap jugakla hati nih time nak masuk tuh. Phew. Note that only the teachers are allowed to go in this room. Maka sape yang bawak anak anak/babies tuh akhirnye kene tinggalkan kat luar jugak so to those yang nak bawak anak anak kecil tuh I would recommend you not to sebab tak buleh bawak masuk jumpa pegawai pun..nanti kesian dia nangis kene tunggu mak dia lama lama..
Dah masuk dalam bilik tu, ada dua orang pegawai. The first one gave a briefing on how to fill in the form and the necessary documents needed. The second one gave a briefing on the states yang memang payah nak masuk cikgu cikgi baru...which are..Terengganu & Kelantan unless you are an English teacher sebab they are lacking of them.
Lepas dah briefing, kami pun serahkan borang kami.
In my case, cikgu BI as a whole in KL da penuh, walopun kat sekolah sekolah ada je yang kurang cikgu BI but I still submit my rayuan anyway. Tak rasa sedih sangat time tuh sebab the two officers were really nice and the way the behaved, they meant business. Takde nak cakap bende bende yang menyakitkan hati.
Pukul 5 lebih, we were done. Kesian jugak pekerja pekerja kat situ, mesti penat kene kerja lebih masa sket dari biasa and had to meet hundredssss of people with different stories and circumstances. Tak lama lagi mesti reach thousand something sebab semalam dapat borang dah number 900++.
We tried what we could. Mane tau kalau Allah izinkan, dapat la tukar dan duduk sekali dengan suami. Semalam sampai aje umah, memang masing masing terus pengsan atas katel. Dalam hati, kesian sangat kat suami. Mesti dia penat, dah la time kerja penat, time cuti pun penat gak. Sobs sobs. Hari nih nak masak nasik ayam yang super sedap penuh kasih sayang untuk dia. Hihi. Malam ni before tido nak urut kaki dia lama lama sket sebab semalam penat sangat, tak larat nak urut huhu.
InshaAllah kalau ada rezeki.
Kalau takde..takpe, kita tengok alternatif lain.
BTW, rayuan pertukaran nih sebenarnye takde pun dalam prosedur. Dia layan sebab ihsan saje dan dia gelar this procedure as "Rayuan Semakan Semula Penempatan".
Sunday, November 21, 2010
part dos.
I know everybody (well, almost everybody) loves the hit single Love The Way You Lie by Eminem featuring Rihanna. Though it revolves around the theme of domestic violence, weirdly enough, most of the lovers of this single don't really bother about it and this is probably because of
1) the nice beat of the song (pun not intended hee)
2) the awesome coolest-of-them-all video clip that features Megan Fox (phewit)
and
3) because it's by Eminem and Rihanna oh em gee they are aweeeeesomeeee (sila baca dengan nada seorang fangirl yang annoying).
I just got to listen to the part 2 of the song and it has even more twisted underlying message to it. A woman who enjoys being tortured (somewhat) and a guy who beats the hell out of his partner but claims to love her so much. They both are violent yet they are deeply in love with each other. Macam twisted, kan. Kalau buat movie best, tapi kalo terjadi in real life, nauzubillah.
1) the nice beat of the song (pun not intended hee)
2) the awesome coolest-of-them-all video clip that features Megan Fox (phewit)
and
3) because it's by Eminem and Rihanna oh em gee they are aweeeeesomeeee (sila baca dengan nada seorang fangirl yang annoying).
I just got to listen to the part 2 of the song and it has even more twisted underlying message to it. A woman who enjoys being tortured (somewhat) and a guy who beats the hell out of his partner but claims to love her so much. They both are violent yet they are deeply in love with each other. Macam twisted, kan. Kalau buat movie best, tapi kalo terjadi in real life, nauzubillah.
holiday yay!
Heheeheheheehehee.
Senyum lebar lebar sebab ape?
Sebab cuti sekolah dah start :-)
Taun nih tak payah jage SPM although initially nama dah naik tapi dah rezeki untuk dapat duduk kat umah for the whole cuti agaknye, maka end up tak dapat pun surat untuk jaga pekse SPM. Whee! I invigilated before (in 2008) and it was a real bore. Duduk sorang sorang dalam bilik peksa (sekolah tuh takde dewan besar untuk exam) tengok budak menjawab. Kalau ikutkan hati memang la nak tido tapi mana buleh nanti kang budak budak amek kesempatan meniru, skali ade pegawai datang tengah check, hohoi haru biru la jugak. Sangat menguji kesabaran dan ketabahan bila jage pekse SPM. Bayaran dia pun tak banyak mana, waktu tuh dapat around 500 aje campo mileage (claim untuk mileage tak banyak sebab waktu tu baru mula kerja, gaji basic masih skit).
Jadi apekah perancangan cuti?
Hehe nothing extraordinary pun selain daripada menjadi surirumahtangga sepenuh masa for this (approximately) one whole month. I'll be going back to school in the last week of December for meetings yang pelbagai but until then my husband has a month to be fully pampered by his wife! ;-)
Senyum lebar lebar sebab ape?
Sebab cuti sekolah dah start :-)
Taun nih tak payah jage SPM although initially nama dah naik tapi dah rezeki untuk dapat duduk kat umah for the whole cuti agaknye, maka end up tak dapat pun surat untuk jaga pekse SPM. Whee! I invigilated before (in 2008) and it was a real bore. Duduk sorang sorang dalam bilik peksa (sekolah tuh takde dewan besar untuk exam) tengok budak menjawab. Kalau ikutkan hati memang la nak tido tapi mana buleh nanti kang budak budak amek kesempatan meniru, skali ade pegawai datang tengah check, hohoi haru biru la jugak. Sangat menguji kesabaran dan ketabahan bila jage pekse SPM. Bayaran dia pun tak banyak mana, waktu tuh dapat around 500 aje campo mileage (claim untuk mileage tak banyak sebab waktu tu baru mula kerja, gaji basic masih skit).
Jadi apekah perancangan cuti?
Hehe nothing extraordinary pun selain daripada menjadi surirumahtangga sepenuh masa for this (approximately) one whole month. I'll be going back to school in the last week of December for meetings yang pelbagai but until then my husband has a month to be fully pampered by his wife! ;-)
Thursday, November 18, 2010
Dua bulan.
Okeh kami da due bulan berkawen. Hihi. Best? Oh memang. Gaduh gaduh? Mestila ade. hihi. Tapi setakat ni tak pernah gadoh sampai bila tido pun pandang tempat lain lain tanda protes. Akhirnya akan ended up cuddling jugak. Mane sampai hati nak resist my sizzling hot fluffeh husband.
Dan biasalah, waktu bujang, orang tanya "bila nak kawen?" Bila dah kawen nih orang tanya pulak "dah ade ke blum?" dah ade tuh maksudnye selalunye adelah :- dah pregnant ke belum. Taktaula kalau orang orang terbabit memaksudkan yang selain daripadanye.
Tapi so far belum ade rejeki. We do not plan when are we to have a baby, we leave it in God's hands. Bila tiba masenye mesti seronot, walopun ngeri sesikit. (Ngeri sebab bila baca pengalaman orang bersalin tuh macam huiii berderau darah). Takpe, the time will come inshaAllah. Bosan jugak sebenarnye bila orang asyik tanya the same question that I have no knowledge of, again and again. Rase macam nak aje cakap "Entahlah ek cube puan wat appointment dengan Tuhan, tanya bila saya dapat baby kalo dah tau nanti jangan lupa bitau saye yek buleh kami wat preparation awal awal. Tenkiu!".
Oh tapi aku nih jarang la bersikap kurang ajar cemtuh. Kecuali kalau mood tak baik.
Time mood tak baik pun orang selalunye leh nampak dari air muka aku maka mereka tak berapa sangat nak melemparkan pernyataan mahupun pertanyaan yang menjengkelkan. Hehe.
Kerap jugak orang bagi komen badan dan gumuk hehe mungkin mereka ingat umah aku takde cermin tapi salah ye, umah aku nih cermin masih tip top dan memang nampak reflection diri sendri dengan jelas. Mata pun cerah. Tak pakai spek. Jadik keperluan untuk menonjolkan penyataan badan dah berisi tuh saye tak nampak langsung keperluannya selain daripada sengaja nak membangkitkan perasaan yang menjengkelkan. Like, duh, I DO own a mirror. Or were you fishing for my compliment and hope that I'll throw this at ya "ituh la kann eh cemane ek ko nih kurus selim melim aje teringin aku nak kurus macam ngko". Which I won't. Sebab what works for you doesn't necessarily means that it will work on me too. Lagipunnnn I've learned to love myself and if you have a problem with how I look then too bad, you are too confined in your own vanity to see the world outside yours.
Sejak dah kawen nih belum pernah lagik dapat jaga suami bebetul. Harap harap time cuti skolah ujung taun nih dapat la kan. Buleh la rase jadik surirumahtangga hehe. Tetiap malam dapat la urut kaki suami tak ape, saye rela, sebab kalau tak urut nanti kang kesian, tak sampai hati tengok muka dia berharap kaki dia kene urut. Lagipun dia senang tertido time kaki kene urut, sekejap aje urut tengok tengok dah lelap. Maka, tak lame mane pun urut tuh., tak sempat nak penat pun :-D
Dan biasalah, waktu bujang, orang tanya "bila nak kawen?" Bila dah kawen nih orang tanya pulak "dah ade ke blum?" dah ade tuh maksudnye selalunye adelah :- dah pregnant ke belum. Taktaula kalau orang orang terbabit memaksudkan yang selain daripadanye.
Tapi so far belum ade rejeki. We do not plan when are we to have a baby, we leave it in God's hands. Bila tiba masenye mesti seronot, walopun ngeri sesikit. (Ngeri sebab bila baca pengalaman orang bersalin tuh macam huiii berderau darah). Takpe, the time will come inshaAllah. Bosan jugak sebenarnye bila orang asyik tanya the same question that I have no knowledge of, again and again. Rase macam nak aje cakap "Entahlah ek cube puan wat appointment dengan Tuhan, tanya bila saya dapat baby kalo dah tau nanti jangan lupa bitau saye yek buleh kami wat preparation awal awal. Tenkiu!".
Oh tapi aku nih jarang la bersikap kurang ajar cemtuh. Kecuali kalau mood tak baik.
Time mood tak baik pun orang selalunye leh nampak dari air muka aku maka mereka tak berapa sangat nak melemparkan pernyataan mahupun pertanyaan yang menjengkelkan. Hehe.
Kerap jugak orang bagi komen badan dan gumuk hehe mungkin mereka ingat umah aku takde cermin tapi salah ye, umah aku nih cermin masih tip top dan memang nampak reflection diri sendri dengan jelas. Mata pun cerah. Tak pakai spek. Jadik keperluan untuk menonjolkan penyataan badan dah berisi tuh saye tak nampak langsung keperluannya selain daripada sengaja nak membangkitkan perasaan yang menjengkelkan. Like, duh, I DO own a mirror. Or were you fishing for my compliment and hope that I'll throw this at ya "ituh la kann eh cemane ek ko nih kurus selim melim aje teringin aku nak kurus macam ngko". Which I won't. Sebab what works for you doesn't necessarily means that it will work on me too. Lagipunnnn I've learned to love myself and if you have a problem with how I look then too bad, you are too confined in your own vanity to see the world outside yours.
Sejak dah kawen nih belum pernah lagik dapat jaga suami bebetul. Harap harap time cuti skolah ujung taun nih dapat la kan. Buleh la rase jadik surirumahtangga hehe. Tetiap malam dapat la urut kaki suami tak ape, saye rela, sebab kalau tak urut nanti kang kesian, tak sampai hati tengok muka dia berharap kaki dia kene urut. Lagipun dia senang tertido time kaki kene urut, sekejap aje urut tengok tengok dah lelap. Maka, tak lame mane pun urut tuh., tak sempat nak penat pun :-D
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